My boyfriend claims that he has no contact with any of his ex-girlfriends. However, he recently tweeted an ex with a message so dirty I can't even repeat it here. When asked about it, he said that he had run into her on a forum where she was taking some crap for her music selection, and that this somehow led to the dirty tweet--where to put it in a round about way he indicated what he liked girls to do to him and vice versa.
1) this is cheating, right? we're supposed to be in an exclusive relationship, but he says that "guys in his generation" (he's 29) don't consider this kind of dirty talk online more than just normal flirting
2) how can I track down the forum where this supposed conversation happened? I have a feeling it was a sex forum of some kind, probably membership required. and yes, I've googled all the email addresses I know for him (he probably has 15) and for her
3) I'm insane and should just break up with this loser, right?
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I would leave him.1