Exactly my point.
And what if the reason they kept it from you was because someone else abused them for it.
Id still be angry as to be in a relationship you should trust your partner. And to keep it for that long is just proving you dont
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My point exactly, yes trust can be one thing people take into comsideration about that situation
I'm not surprised anymore about people not trusting (or find it so hard to find trust) when people r so self centered and self righteous. Feels bad man
You don't understand. Most people can detect a transgender right away so the transgender can't really "hide it".
Yeah check for an Adams apple, plus if they got a deep voice, if they give me any shit, I'de pay an old woman to beat them up. That's fair. Old lady with a metal shifter, verse mad tranny with a heavy handbag.
All it had to do was be honest from the start. “Hi I’m Carl (shake hands) hi I’m ________ I don’t want to lie to you but I’m a trans thing.” Thats all that had to happen and I’dve been “sorry I’m not into that.”
Still leave em can't do that!!
They lied to me, and I didn't abuse them, so - still a liar.
Whether you abused them or not is not part of my previous statement. But what im saying is that yes i know and understand that lying plays a huge part in leaving them but from their past abuse they were afraid to tell you the truth.
Then they needed to deal with their problem before bringing me into the equation.
A drunk driver may be alcoholic as thereby have a disease, but his responsibility is to achieve sobriety before driving. Same here.
Good analogy, unfortunately the transfer community is fighting so they legally have no responsibility to tell the truth about the identity and sexuality, you have to avoid these people like the plague some of them are. Some of them might be OK people but they still have unrealistic expectations.
@monkeynutts I have complete sympathy for the trans community, but It's not my thing. Besides, you can tell the difference pretty easily anyway. I mean sure, looking at a small picture of someone you might be fooled, but in person, the differences are obvious.
I wouldn't care. I would end it.
They should not be dating me, they can stick to their side of the city, they won't come near mine. Besides I didn't do anything to them, so why lie and mess with my life.
I wouldn't give two shits.