Its hard breaking for me to know that my boyfriend of 1 year and 3 months found a new girlfriend only 3 weeks after we broke up. I mean what did he do that? how do I get over it?
I want to know if this ever happened to somebody else so I could feel better
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Probably a rebound. Comfort most probably. If he was the one who did the breaking up, he could well have liked her beforehand too though.
My ex of 3 years broke up with me a couple of months ago and THANKFULLY (I guess) I haven't seen or heard from her since she broke it off. However, I expect the worst and my imagination runs wild and I kind of assume she's already either with, or chasing after, somebody else. And it hurts - Of course it does... Especially when you think you had something special and for it all to amount to nothing.
Makes you wonder if there actually is such a thing as love if you can plan the future with somebody and then have them rip it from you and move onto somebody else - when do they stop? Is there such a thing as "The one" or is it just the person you feel most comfortable with after all of the bouncing from partner to partner? I dunno.
Just know that you're not the first person this has happened to, and you certainly won't be the last. And then remember that it's his loss and he probably downgraded girls. And there is always somebody worse off than you in the same situations... Time heals. /cliches.0