I'm just not happy anymore?

I've been in a relationship for the last 6 years with a great girl, motivated and creative. But when it comes to cleaning or taking initiative on things she doesn't come through. She recently lost her job and I've been pulling all weight. I work all day and when I get home the mess is worse then when I left. She doesn't take out the trash or do much of anything around the house. Leaving me to clean and cook and I get it you know? She's probably taking it hard But before the work was split because we both worked except I always put in a little more effort. But after she lost her job she got much worse. it's been 3 months now and I'm starting to get tired and I feel like I'm ready to call it quits. Maybe I'm an asshole (that's what she calls me when I bring it up) but it's true. I've talked to her but she doesn't like when her flaws are pointed out to her. She'll make excuses or point the blame at me or others. Some advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
I'm just not happy anymore?
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