we were best friends through out high school then finally we went out with each other. now 6 years later she breaks up with me and finds a new boyfriend within a week of time. she still talks to me like if we were good friends but only when she wants to (cuz when she's with the new boyfriend she ignores my calls or text half the time) we can't hang out or c each other because the other guy said so. my question is should I just be friends with her and be there for her even though she don't treat me like a friend? or is it better to just have no contact with her at all and not be friends.
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do not be friends until you're ready...shes in a rebound relationship, unless she;s been over you for some time now...you need to stop trying to contact her for your own good...this will just make it easier for you to get over her, this is your time to make yourself a better person and work on who you are...forget her, if she found a guy within a week she has no idea wtf she's doing and is confused OR like I said before she's been over you and potentially already been seeing this other guy...if you can stand to see her with this guy, kissing and flirting and all then you'll be OK to be friends, but until then its not a good idea...just stay away and do you, leave her out of your loop0