My boyfriend has been my best friend as long as I can remember. He's like prince charming and I would never do anything to hurt him. The problem is that I lost feelings for him and I still wanna be best friends with him but I'm afraid our friendship would be completely lost if I break up with him.
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Of course he will be very upset, but if he is your really good friend he will understand (and may be even support your decision). Just please be honest with him about the reasons for your decision (Bitter Truth is better than Sweet lie! ), don't use "cliché" sentences "you don't deserve me", "you will find another girl", etc...please don't - it doesn't help... and give him some time to heal.. I don't know how much time, everyone is different, but I wouldn't suggest to contact him until he is in a new relationship...I think it can be a good sign that he finally moved on (although to be frank - it doesn't mean anything)...I think if you will be around him, while he is "healing" it will only hurt him more...So just agree on this also, so no one would expect calls/txts from anyone...can save a lot of frustration...1