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I know it's hard after such a long time of being in love with a guy, but realistically a guy like him doesn't deserve you after the way he's treated you. Go pursue your friendships again, with female friends. There are definitely other women out there who can relate to you and will want to support you through this. Try to find a routine to settle back in to a good lifestyle, but include fun spontaneous things. And if he does ever want you back, don't take him. Get rid of everything you have of his and his contact details, everything. This is the first step to letting go, and it's suprisingly hard. Get a new pet, if you like animals and you don't have too many already. It seems obvious, but make sure you're still taking care of your health (eating enough nutritious and healthy food, drinking enough water, sleeping enough etc.). Physical health directly affects mental health, and is very important in situations like this. Continue focusing on work if you like your job, but don't make it your entire life, and the only thing you go out for. This will make you feel worse.