My girlfriend went through a break up. She was with the guy for 7 years. According to her he was abusive emotionally and physically and he cheated on her. She broke up with him a couple months ago, before Christmas I'm guessing. We met, after a couple dates she said she didn't know what she wanted and she still loved him and she was still going to be his friend. I naturally wasn't happy with the idea but I dealt with it because I care. Now she broke up with me and she told me she needed time. What really got to me though was that she cooked dinner with HIM at HIS HOUSE. Now she says she wants time to "find herself" which apparently means go out, have fun flirt with other guys. Will she come to her senses? She always said I was better I he was, I was always more active in her life, more supportive and now this.