What does it look like when a guy is making an effort in a relationship?

I've forgotten what it looks like.

I'm usually the one getting him surprise treats on Valentine's, Halloweens, baking cookies/brownies, paying for dinner (or half), helping to open doors, being there when he calls me or texts me, getting him a surprise birthday gift. Being myself. Trying not to be confusing. Cracking jokes.

I'm thinking about my past relationships and I'm trying to think of one thing they've done for me that wasn't all words (e.g. 'We should go there someday', 'You're sweet', 'I'm sorry I didn't call you back. I was busy / I didn't feel too good,' )

I don't know what I'm supposed to look forward to. The past two boyfriends flirted with girls in front of me, near the end of the relationship.
What does it look like when a guy is making an effort in a relationship?
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