so me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 3 weeks and just started dating about a week ago, before that i never really knew how insecure and clingy he was. he constantly texts me saying how much he misses me and asking how much i miss him and it’s a little too much. or he’ll ask if he’s hotter with a nose ring or a mustang or something like that and its just getting annoying. other times he’ll text me and say he hates himself and that he is scared that i’ll see him the way he sees himself but if i reach out to him when i’m upset he just kinda brushes it off. I don’t want to continue leading him on so i’ve been kinda short with him like one word answers and stuff but i’m not going to see him for another 2 days and i don’t know if i should wait to break up with him in person or just get it over with now.