I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. Honestly, he is a great guy, never fights with me and does whatever I need. But I realize that I'm just not completely happy. I am also not physically attracted to him and I always ignored it but I just can't anymore. It influences a lot of things. When I go out I see other guys and I wish I could just go talk to them and not have to worry about any boundaries. My best friend is extremely gorgeous and I absolutely love it when he's comes around. I feel like he makes me more happy than he should. I am seriously lost...please help!
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its a tough one. but if he's a great guy stick with him. Because looks go away. Not only other guys', but yours will also go away. If you already have a good thing going, then why would you risk other guys and see whether its good as well or not. 2 years is a lot, so you two can practically talk about anything. So you should discuss this with him maturely and give him advise on how to change himself. Perhaps, a new wardrobe, joining a gym and/or getting a new haircut. Something that would make you attracted to him again. Discuss it. If you just break up, you'l break his heart. And in the long run you will regret it because like you said yourself, he's a great guy.
Btw, I speak from experience, I have been dumped by a girl for similar reason but she still is attracted to me. Just wanted to see what else is out there. We were happy together but she perhaps she wanted to see if there's anything better out there for her. I would have married her and tried to make her the happiest girl in the world. But oh well, I got my heart broken.
Anyways, my advice to you would be to see if this guy really loves you and makes you happy, then stick with him.0