OK so he broke up with me for no reason he was cheating on me with more than one girl and didn't treat me good... we were together for four years and I was heartbroken... he added me back on facebook and he talks to me like he kind of wants to get back but he's sometimeish..sometimes he acts like that and other times he doesn't care ...i want to know when I'm talking to him should I be very nice since I forgave him or should I be plain and not say much and cut the convo short... please I need your help I'm confused when I talk to him and also should I talk to him sometimes? or should I only talk to him when he speaks to me?
- Very friendly and nice because I forgave himVote A
- Mean because of what he did to meVote B
- Only talk to him when he talks to me and be very dullVote C
- Only talk to him when he says something to me and make the conversation nice and shortVote D
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It's easy to be nice to someone you don't care about. Now, it sounds like you still care. Nothing wrong with being nice and friendly. Do I think he wants to get back together? To guard your heart, no.
I think you should just act like it is old news. He might try to contact you but that doesn't mean that you have to acknowledge it or bother to entertain it. I don't think you should be even answering his calls. What do you hope to accomplish by talking to him? Leave him wondering about you. You don't have time for people like that but you are not low enough to rub his face in it. You are better than that and you have moved on. Start moving on because if you did, you wouldn't waste your time asking questions about him.0