I am still trying to put my life back in pieces after she left me about 9 months ago. We were together for about 4 years before she left me. She's now seeing her 2nd man after me but here I am. Still griefing. How do you cope with this? Its been too long. We didn't even have a proper goodbye. She did it over a text and refused to pick up calls to clarify things. It's like she's in a game and decided to just quit.