he doesn't like to show emotions because he thinks it makes him seem weak, but then why does he show it sometimes
beacause he is your ex he wants to show u that he is fine without u but perhaps deep inside he missed u that's why sometimes shows his emotions. it happens
and then why he hides it?
do u show him your feelings now?
that's why he shows a little. he will treat u as u will treat him
okay another weird thing, I added him back on snap chat then he added me back... then he added me back on instagram... but then he deleted me off snap chat but not instagram?
i thinks he wants to be with u again but doesn't wanna come up as desprate before u that's why does such little things
even to add me and then delete me?
may be, everyone thiks differntly i can't read his mind obviously :P but i told my thought
It seems like he goes through phases
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so thats why he goes back and forth? because it seems like there's times where he is so curious with what im doing and he likes sad tweets and all that and then sometimes he doesn't look at anything of mine and like he seems more angry or like "I don't her" kind of mood... recently he replied to a tweet of mine that had nothing to do with him...
I guess so.I myself keep checking on my ex sometimes (mostly during those days when I m emotional or beat) and when I m feeling stronger I resist.
so you think there's days where he just feels stronger than others?
I feel like I have to keep communication to a menimum, because when ever I over indulge I tend to be mean or draw up some drama
Stronger or just less needy 😶
i mean also im not giving into him anymore, like he replied to my tweet and i said nothing, and im not liking everything of his or posting that im feeling sad or emotional and i think it throws him off.
Yea well it might be a back and forth between you too, that's leaving both of you confused
It seems like were both playing cat and mouse, like when i care he seems like he doesn't and when i dont care or more or less dont show it it seems like he's more interested
You should talk to him! I m sure he ll indulge and be happy to have real contact with you, just as you will too
But we have been back and forth, and i am ALWAYS the one to give in first and starts to talk and I don't want to be the first one anymore
I know the feeling.It's shit 🙁I m doing my best not to talk to her and sometimes when I m successful she's the one who gives in
its hard cause its like were both like no dont talk to them dont talk to them...
Seems to me both of you don't want to be broken up so don't hold back! And let him know.I don't have that luxury because she's currently living in an other country
i mean the reason we ended is because he transferred to another school and he's 10 hours away and long distance and stuff was making us argue all the time and was stressing both of us out and it was just getting really hard
Then let him know you want to stay in touch without having to be in a relationshipTalking to that special someone openly will do both of you some good, even if you don't date
how are you so certain he isn't over me tho?
I am not.But if I compare with what I am going through then I can definitely tell you I am not over her. And seeing as our behavior is similar, I feel like he isn't
another weird thing was, when we first ended again... i deleted him off social media because i didn't want to see his snap chats and stuff of him partying... and recently i decided to add him back on snap chat and then right after he added me back on instagram instantly
Communicate luv! Tell him how you feel. There's obviously some ambiguous feelings that he's having too, there's no harm in finding out.
But he is also so so soooo stubborn and has the biggest ego that like his pride gets the best of him :/ Im also so sorry you're going through a similar thing
Then navigate around his ego, make him feel like you need him to talk. If he doesn't then frankly he's just a big child
other thing, he gets very immature during these situations
I see.Try not to show emotion then make it seem like a normal conversation, so it doesn't turn into a fight (I've made that mistake)
i've made that mistake too... and his back and frothiness really stresses me out
I am trying to work around her immaturity and temper when communicating, you seem level minded, try to do the same.Or do what my friends tell me I should do and stop trying. Coz these situations get toxic for people like us. But it's just so hard to let go when the last thing you want is to loose that person
oh my gosh it seems like our situations are very very similar... all of my friends have told me dont you get tired of this or doesn't he immaturity and everything get old? and yea it is exhausting but its not that easy to just give up
Yea well I guess we tend to give value to people! It's not wrong, but might be self distructive
I mean yeah i do drive myself crazy wondering how he feels but like how can i not?
If I knew we wouldn't be here
very very true, I just feel like if he didn't care he wouldn't care ever you know?
Exactly, that's what keeps us hanging on I guess
Anw thanks for this! Really feels good to talk about this with someone ☺️And If you wanna know more about me I m @zeejabr on Instagram
he would watch my stories when he didn't even follow me