Basically it's been going on 3 years on and off I like him so much but he's fucked me over pretty bad. I looked past everything. He never commits goes hot and cold and so finally I said I was done trying. I was a ride or die for him then everything he has done for me and he like didn't even care that I left? I never felt a certain way before about another man as I do him. He's 28 and I don't understand he said he wanted to start daiting with no title till I proved some things but he's the one that needs to do the proving? Can you get a man to realize?