Online dating? What ruins the first conversation? (Advice welcome)?

So I've done a bit of online dating recently and I find that a lot of people don't even respond. Is that just me being an "average" guy. While I am a very energetic guy in person K feel like I need to be pretty casual when I first talk to them.

"Hey there, how you been" is what I've been using for a while and it works sometimes but I'm sure there are better thing I could start off with.

I feel like it turns a lot of people off since it's really generic but I never get a response if I use something more energetic.

Anyone got any advice on a better start? I like to try and keep things fun but im not sure how what else to start off with.
Online dating? What ruins the first conversation? (Advice welcome)?
Online dating? What ruins the first conversation? (Advice welcome)?
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