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There could be many reasons but the biggest one I can think of is that they simply don't like confrontation. Maybe they don't know how to break things off with you in person so instead of confronting you, they just stop responding and ignore you altogether. I know it sucks because it doesn't give you a chance to learn what went wrong, but I would just try not to worry about it and move on. Hopefully any future guys you meet will have more respect for you and have the courage to TALK to you when something is wrong instead of just "ghosting."
Reasons:He find better girlHis contacts deletedHe has a new girlfriend He's just playing your heart. He's not serious about youYou offended himLose interestGot boredDiedGirl you don't deserve him. You deserve a real man who wouldn't ghost you and not an immature coward guy like him. ❤
You should write a book about this
Haha 😂 well I'm not a good writer
Ghosting is cowardly.Having said that, sometimes one person claims they were ghosted when they're in denial that the other person broke up.As for anonymous saying "tell me they didn't like me"... ridiculous. He liked you or it wouldn't have lasted a year. If he didn't like you, you should not have gone on that first date.There are lots of different reasons why people break up. It was likely multiple reasons. Ultimately, he didn't want to be loyal to a relationship with you.
I meant it as him no longer having feelings, I knew he did initially
Some girls are kinda stressing for us. Messages all time, trying to flirt with us, and we don't even like her, this may piss off most guys. So we just ignore them, best way to do it is by ignoring, i'm sorry. We need space and priv acy, some girls just don't understand that.
I definitely didn’t do that haha it was more him who liked/messaged me but thanks for the input I can see how this could be a reason why
Yeah I didn't say you are that type of girl, i just pointed out a fact, but it also applies to the men.
Sometimes it's harder to be honest to people you are supposed to care about. Society has made this pressure where the only thing you can be in a relationship is be positive and excessively stroke the ego of your partner, usually at the expense of your honesty.Some people prefer to run from their issues rather than talk about them.Going forward, just try to make sure you're creating a space where people that value you can give you honest feedback without fear that you will misinterpret it as vilifying you.
I assume ghost means ignore here. So anyway I know this female. We're classmates and in the same batch and everything. We were friends for a short while too. I, having completed my projects or whatever well within time would help out the other people, this one among them. Well, there was a time when I desperately needed some notes and she refused to share them. That began to bug me. Later on, there was a group project and we had to share our written materials and bla bla, so I gave my final draft. Well, this one just shared some random link off the internet. And recently, I needed help with a few questions and she was the only one whom I could contact and well, again the same thing. I guess that sums up stuff?
Why do girls ghost? Same story. I never ghost though. I think it takes a low EQ to cheat and ghost people. I guess that would imply that a lot of our generation has a low EQ lmao.
Women do it too men and just say its not you its me wtf? So when a guy dose it he needs a reason? Wry its good for you but when he does it he's wrong or out of order for it maybe if women didn't do it too them then maybe he would do it too you?
I don't think this is limited to guys but a year? What was your relationship?
The same reason girls ghost, it's easier for them as they don't have any lingering feelings
I usually see ghosting as the easy way out... I don't do it i suffered from it enough they just prefer solve the problem acting that you don't exist.
Because a lot of females stay in their feelings, half of them are hella vindictive and we don't wanna deal with it all the time. (Not saying you are like that... But some women... Oof)
They ghost, because they may have found someone who they are 1. More attracted to, or 2. They found someone with more similarities, or 3. They may just not want to talk anymore. Please respect it. It's just how they are.
I did respect it I haven’t spoken to him since he ghosted me I just wanted to know
Not all guys ghost, if the do it's because they are scared.
I got ghosted by a girl I was extremely in love with, it was the worst thing ever because it was a chapter of my life I couldn't close completely, it haunted me for well over 8 months despite we were together only for about 3. Its not a gender specific thing, only about shitty people.
I don't know but girls do the same and it's annoying
Maybe he left the town or maybe he found someone else and didn't want you to find out or somethingThere can be numerous reasons.
I get ghosted on a regular basis for the last few years. Dont even understand if there's any otger way regarding datings.
Because we evolve mentally physically and spiritually hence ghost and because your to attached anonymous let go more and live a little more focus on your self aight 13 peace
You can not control others action. You you got ghosted you need to let go and move on to next set of friends. Remember friends are not forever they aquintence.
Cause he is an insecure twit and does not have the maturity to tell you he does not want to see you.
Why does anyone ghost? Because they are making it easier on themselves without any regard to others.
Coz you are his backup, likewise girls does this too, not just one gender.
They claim sometimes they dont want to hurt ur feelings
New girls seem better and you lose interest in the old ones
Im not sure mayne he is very shy and doesn't know how to talk to u send me a message so i can know more details
Some may be scared of seeing your reaction but not all guys are like that, only the ones whom have something to hide or don't want to confront you
Because i would be concerned with how crazy the chick would react or just that she makes me feel really uncomfortable
Well maybe it's cause of all the time he have to take initiative.Which leads them to think maybe the girl is not interested. so they decide to ghost to check how the girl will react if she didn't react the guy is gone.
Girls do this too. It’s just immature people who ghost. I don’t know why he ghosted you, but if he did you’re better off without him
He got some issue.. probably a coward who can't deal with problems so he rather run, ghost and hide
They prefer not to hurt some one and also stay friends
Ah jeez why dont girls tell me directly it was me not them. People awoid dealing with shit all the time. Learn to recognise lack of interest and move on
They probably like you but you have some extra bagage they can't handle so they find it's easier to ghost than to be honest. At least that's my experience with ghosting.
Seriously? I think girls are the ones being experts in ghosting.
People who ghost are cowards.
Fear of commiting to a relationship.
People that ghost have problems with dealing with issues. They would much rather hide
Suck it up! Take it like a man!
Lol I haven’t spoken to him since he did it. So I have. I just wanted to know reasons why.
Do you realize tar women ghost as well?
Yes I do realise girls ghost. But if I wanted to ask why I would of :)
Guys and women ghost to avoid people.
I'm English. What is ghost?
Cutting all communication. Completely ignoring you.
Why? I'm sorry I really don't know what that means
It's not a term that I have ever heard
you didn't give him any pussy
Because we want to avoid certain people
People ghost because it's the easy way out
To avoid a useless discussion and a fight.
They don't have balls.
You mean mutilation?
Whatever floats the boat.
A year? I need more info
We went on dates and we were talking for literally over a year. On my birthday he told me he couldn’t come to my birthday party and he never spoke to me since. We never fought and we got on really well so it’s just as confusing for me
W just dont like to hurt your feelings directly
I could ask the same about women!
Most guys are spineless cowards lass
Easier not to answer than to deal with anything
Because you prob didn't put out
That’s probs true tbh
Irrisponsible guys do that!
Why do girls ghost? Yeah.. Many girls ghosted me..
What is ghosting?
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Ghosting so... When you suddenly stop communicating with someone and avoid him everywhere. Then you ghost this person.
Its the most unrespectful and hateful thing on earth. Its worse than hating.
Why do girls ghost? It's not just guys
Guys? Hahaha Aahhh hahahahahahaha. Not just guys!
Only one reason to ghost... immaturity.
Leave him then
Guys don't like to hurt girls feelings
You're not worth their time
NOT just guys
Obviously... if I wanted to know why girls ghost I would of asked
Because its easier?
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