Ok so 1 1/2 years ago I found out that my husband was having an affair. We have since split up however he still continues to be a jurk to me every chance he gets. He acts like I'm the one who had the affair and walked out when it was him that did all of this.
He calls me names and attacks me verbally every chance he gets. He taunts me asking if I like being alone, and sends texts messages saying the same. I don't respond back to all of his crap but he still continues,. He seems to have this grudge against me for which I do not understand where it is coming from. Even his dad has confronted him about his behavior toward me. I have moved on and am very happy now, but I would like a guys opinion of why he is behaving this way.
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i'd tell him if he doesn't stop then lawyers will get involved. that's harassment. things were finished between y'all completely when y'all signed the papers...even HIS DAD said something to him but he's still not doing anything about it? I'd tell him if he doesn't stop then he'll get into some legal trouble because regardless if he misses you or not, which it sounds like he does, sh*t like this is scary and unacceptable. just because he cheated doesn't mean he wanted the relationship to end. guys cheat, from my understanding, for more than one reason. we see it as just one reason (we're not giving them something they want or need) but apparently it's more than one reason it could be an ego boost, to see if they can get away with it, they aren't getting from one what they're getting from another, they need that assurance, so just because your relationship ended because he had an affair doesn't mean he was ready for it to end. although, it could be he just wants what he can't have. seriously, don't play nice guy here and be like a lot of other girls here who are all, "i don't want to be mean" or "i don't want this to be a big deal" this could get bigger than words do you really want to wait around for that?good luck2
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