How do you get over a break up that you had so much hopes for?

The guy I was with we broke up. We had such a strong connection. Long story on the day of our “break” he said if there is anyone i want to date, its you. Nobody will get the same amount of attention from me that i gave you. They dont deserve it, you do. Maybe a day or two later, i had this feeling i needed to check on tinder. And sure enough he was back on there, ready to go at it again. Its been a week since our “break” and my heart still breaks because i lost him. I know that if he was that quick to get back out there than that should be enough for me to let go. But i truly loved him, and thats what kills me. I want this attachment feeling to go away. It feels like its never going to. Any advice?
How do you get over a break up that you had so much hopes for?
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