My girlfriend of a year recently broke up with me not really giving me a reason I accepted it as much as it hurt me and after her ignoring me for weeks we've been talking again but just as friends nothing more. Last night things got weird she was drunk and texted me to pick her up from a bar I was sleeping and didn't realize. I finally woke up after about 20 texts and calls of her saying who are you with and just accusing me of being with someone else. When I answered her call she was pretty much going crazy and I was just saying you left me you wanted this and stuff like that. She also made sure to tell me she's been seeing someone and he's better than me etc. Why would she do this? I think she's lying about the seeing somebody thing but I don't really know her friends who are my friends have been taking her side so I really don't know. I love this girl and wanted a long term future with her but I just don't understand anything to he honest.
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well unfortunately some girls do breakup with guys sometimes out of anger. We do tend to say things we do not mean in the heat of the moment. Maybe she did not mean it and is having a tough time accepting her mistake and telling you. The other option is that she might be liking the attention of another guy and might be confused. It is obvious that she cares for you based on the calls and texts and accusing you for being with someone else. You can either:
A) let her go and not answer to her calls again and tell her to leave you alone
B) Sit down with her and ask her why did she breakup with you and still calling you. Al least you might get some answers.
Good luck and sorry your going through this!0