wouah ! single and not ready to mingle since 2011 ? :o i want to know why not?
Lots of things like depression, lack of transportation, lack of motivation, mental illness, getting things in my life in order, and I don't really know where or how to meet nice single girls.
when it goes pretty well , its either your holding back or u just didn't have much feelings in the first place.
im truly happy for u shelina :) <3 could u please tell me te process of afterwards?
You mean how I really really moved on? Well I guess I didn't have feelings for him a long time ago but I kept going back to him bc I felt like he was the only guy who I'd ever fell hard for (which clearly I was wrong) or smth like that. But yea tbh after all his rejections and all those fake "I miss you" moments from him, I just finally realised I should stop. I just realised that I shouldn't waste my time on him. That's how I moved on.
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This is scarily similair to what I've just went through 😂😂
Sorry to hear that. Hope you're coping better than I am.I'd begun to give up hope of having kids. To find out your going to be a dad and then have it taken away after a few weeks is tough to swallow. Things between me n ex have been mishandled (blame on both sides really (I do blame her primarily but I do take some responsibility)), communication started slipping, she then decided Valentine's day would be appropriate to end things and inform me about the pregnancy. Communication went downhill quickly from there.
i think you should consider therapy , it really will guiden u up a bit
I've been seeing a shrink, some different issues and this, much longer story.I've just taken things to heart a lot. I wear my heart close to my sleeve, I gave a big part of me to the relationship, it fell apart very quickly and with no real explanation (My personality drives towards certainty and detail, none of which I had)
I really feel sorry for u , can't say im not going through some mental breakdown myself. i have anxiety and panic attacs i guess its the ilness of the century , but hey there is always worst i think u should continue therapy its really good
I know. Been working with shrink, on and off, for 8 months now. I've come a long way. The current hurdles have been a challenge. I'll get there. Starting to look at new relationships. Honestly, not sure I'm ready. Don't want to lead anyone on but think it will help to have someone around who I can do couple type things with. I think I'm missing the relationship as much as the individual. Just needed to be honest about my ability to commit right now (not necessarily the backstory)
Well i think the thing in relationship break ups they teach u how to be ur self again , afterwards u'll figure that this hall time you were just emotionnally dependant trust me. We get into relationships not to be complete nor happy it happens within our selfs !
That's where i have struggled for many years, being happy within myself... i'll get the.You asked the question. Do you have a story?
i figured i was emotionnally attached because of smthng that was burried deep down and trust me the 2 persons that i thought i was madly in love with are now memories like never happened , wear right? now im working on myself to prevent this from happening again !
Glad your working on yourself, sounds like you have things under control (for now).There's a big part of me that knows things are finished with, and that it's for the best (we obviously weren't right for each other), but there is part of me missing something. Some of my issues have been about isolation and lack of intimacy, right now there's a void that had been filled but now feels as big as ever.
you should know what is missing !
i see ! lets say a girl comes to you now lets say she is : cute smart funny and all sweet talking and has a bit of a strong female aspect , would you give her a shot or wait until ur ready ,?
If something happens then I'm happy to try. I'm just not actively looking nor do I want to chase a girl who tries to play hard to get.
AHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA u made my night
are u joking? pls tll me you are goddamn it u a comedian ahahahaaa
Nope not jk, as for moving on - did it pretty easy, never much cared for any of them exept #1 and #5 after friends with benefits. So moving on consisted of week binge watching a tv show and after that spamming friends to go to music events.
guess thats thats what lessons are for
good for you ! i guess thats the ultimate solution isn't it
Time heals all wounds. Trust me surround yourself with friends and family and when the time is right, life will happen. 3)
oh it is so sad to know that ! hope you'd finally moove on one day , but for how long was the realtionship?
Same with me. I still haven't really gotten over him.
*pat on back*, i know.
True ! its like you feel disconnected from the world , its like the only thing preocupying ur spirit
The thing is I was separated from the world, I was in prison