I have 6 months since my ex dumped me, he did it cause he felt overwhelmed by many things and he wanted to work in another city, in the first month he tried to contact me one time angrily and other calm, but I didn’t reply to any and I blocked him from all my social media. I felt that his indecisive behavior wasn’t good for me at that time. I kind of wanting him back but I know we need some time apart. Now he has a new girlfriend, I don’t know why but i feel like deep in my guts he still doesn’t know what he is doing and he can’t cope with being alone for too long. I know that what he is doing right now with his life shouldn’t concern me. (We lasted almost 4 years togheter, we know each other from college) sometimes it feel awful overthinking that all the years togheter mean nothing right now.