Should I reach out to my ex?

I’ve been missing him lately and I want to reach out and say hi. However i think he might be seeing someone? I don’t know if I should message him because I don’t want to mess things up for him if he met someone nice. I just miss him.

Yet I wonder if I’m missing him for the right reasons? I miss our relationship and I feel like an idiot for dumping him. But he could be possessive sometimes and I’m not sure if I want to deal with that again. He also partied a lot which I’m not as into. I mean I like going out but not til 3am every night.
Should I reach out to my ex?
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