My boyfriend is not motivated to do anything ☹ I'm hurt because I go out my way to look for job sites and flyers. Also gave him few apps on weight loss (because he has gained a lot of weight) and as a result he says he doesn't feel like he needs to do anything right now due to the fact he has his dads insurance money (he feels he doesn't need a job). However, just a month ago he told me and promised me he was going to change and I feel like I been lied to and taken advantage of this whole time 😢😢😣☹. He offered to be friends and I basically told him why... after everything I been through with him? Why is he doing this to me?