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Yes depends on the reason. I've broken up because of distance, uncommunicated mental illness, or just having the wrong timing. I think depending on the seriousness of a relationship, it's best to break up if it is bringing you down now, but that doesn't always mean you were bad for each other. Just that the circumstances didn't align, or you weren't ready to be anyone's "last". I have exes from 1-5 years ago that I stay loosely in touch with as friends because they're good people, with good personalities. I find when you're young, you're growing and changing so much it's hard to pick a person and limit your own growth no matter how much you think you live them. Depends on the relationship I guess. Some exes I can happily say I'll never see again in life or social media.
LMAO ok so i dated this dude for 1 month, was total bullshit, stopped contact for over a year.Now we dated again for 2+ years and we're planning on future projects like getting married, having kids, etc.
Wow that's looks so cute,, I wish if this happened to me hh,, good luck and with all love
It really depends on how you feel about him. Trust your gut.
it's not an easy thing to do but I'll think about the second. Chance...
I got back with my ex like 20 times in 3 years. It was such an on and off relationship. But we both knew it was toxic. And there was no sex either 😑 The only reason we kept going back into it was because of the history between us. The first always seems to be the hardest. But I'm well over it now and glad to be on my own.
My ex dumped me because I spent too much time with a cancer patient. So that's a solid no.
I'm sorry about that,,,
That just depends on what they done to become your X. I was separated in my first marriage of 5 years because she cheated on me. I loved her more than life itself so I was willing to forgive her. I couldn't forget but who could. We were working things out and started "for the lack of better words" dating again. During that time we got pregnant. I was so happy and excited that I was going to have a child. About 3-4 months along she passed away while pregnant. I lost my mind and everything else. My most recent X. I loved her a lot too. We had 4 break ups and the last time I had no more energy so to speak to try it a 5th time. I had always been the one who tried to make it work. But every one is different. My last X hated the fact that I have a habit I can't break. It's not drugs , alcohol , gambling or any thing "normal" and its nothing that harms others. I love wearing heels once in a while. I wear women's tennis all the time because they fit better. She didn't mind the tennis. I have never cheated on anyone or was violent. It was the one thing that she could not accept and I tried to change and failed every time.
I gave my ex 3 chances. Ended the same way all 3 times. I think Einstein said that "to do something over and over again and expect a diffrent result is the true definition of insanity." That being said people are capable of changing but only if THEY want to. U can't force them and most people choose not to. Can u forgive them or look passed the reason for the split to begin with without any resentment? Some people deserve another chance and some dont deserve to be pissed on if their eyebrows were on fire.
Not in a million years. He asked to be friends. Then he found out I was moving in with my current boyfriend. He has since asked 3 of my friends and family members extremely probing questions about my relationship (which no one answered) because "he still loves me." Fuck that.
Too many factors play into why a relationship fails, but usually I avoid getting back with ex's, the relationship ended for a reason.Usually getting back with an ex results in another breakup, a connection is never as strong as when it is first created, when trying to reconnect, a permanent scar is left from when it was broken the first time.
I didn't ever give my first boyfriend (I was 21) a second chance but I also wasn't ever in love with him. My current partner has gotten so many chances it's disgusting. Bit that's because I love him. Still love him but I've asked him to move out because his behavior is unbearable.
Which ex? Most of them the answer would be no. Except for the one that called so i drove 1200 miles to get her, but she stole my car and left me to die in the desert. When i made it home weeks later , i took her back, and took her back one more again after that. If she showed up on my porch today and when i opened the door she kicked me in the balls id say welcome home baby i love you. But we all got that one right?
We accept the love we think we deserve
Yes, depending on the situation. Often an executive is an ex for a very valid reason. Sometimes though two people need time to heal or grow for a relationship to work. If it's meant to be it will work out.
Honestly, questions like this annoy me... You are far to generalising with things like that. There isn't a clear yes or no answer, since it's always depending on the case. But i personally would tend to yes
It truly depends on the circumstances. After an ex hoes me, then no. If it was something like distance or other people being assholes or a lack of desire to commit, then sure. I wanna be able to talk to an ex IF I don't wanna get back into it with them. This is just me.
No, if someone failed me once, the major probability is that she will fail me again, but i could remain friends with an ex, no problem at all in that regard.
Never Forgive a mistake, not a choice.
Recent ex, no.Would it be possible. Yeah, in certain circumstances. If break up was mutual and done right, and met later in time when able to address issue that cause split then yes
Its highly dependent on how you broke up, and who was the one more dominant in the relationship, and even how much time has passed from the breakup, and your current lovelife situation. But yeah, out of my 5 ex's id give only one another chance.
You can do whatever you want. But.. there is an only saying about being fooled more than once.I suppose it all depends on the sercombstances, why the split and whatever poignant reasons you may have for reuniting.
It depends on who my ex is and what caused us to breakup, but maybe.
Sure I can. I can immidietly regret and get hurt by the situation too. Which would happen if I took them back
Nope! An ex is an ex for a reason. If you go back to your ex you’re either desperate or bored.
Yes... if there can be a way together... good people difficult to find then why loose one... u invest time and life in a person... if it can be a way then it should be given a chance
Depends which ex. But at this moment none of them 😅
If he's my ex, I'm sure we had some horrible problems. I'm the kind of person who's gonna do everything to make a relationship work.So no.
I would depending on the situation. My ex and I ended things mutually, so yes as we are still good friends
Yeah I also ended it mutually but then especially not. There was a clear reason we didn't work. It was not situation dependent. No conflict it just don't work. Why would that change
Yes I could give her another chance, if she'd want to. We had a very calm breakup and it had it's root in us two being at different places in our lives.
I only did once but when I found out he was cheating on me I dump him. no I will never give a asshole another chance to take me for granted or been cheated on again. the trust was broke.
If i "get back with my ex" i'm getting back with my sex. That's about it. No commitment to that.
I'd say yes, me and my ex both had our own personal problems in life, but none that destroyed the relationship we had. It just pushed us apart. The long distance didn't help either so I would give it another go with her.
I think it is very heavily situational but I think it's possible if both parties have grow past or gotten over any petty wrongs they may have felt. If the break up was because of cheating or something like that then the answer is no for me.
I would say yes because not all of my experiences with an ex were bad, more that life and misunderstandings got in the way, so I’d definitely be open to it with a couple.
The one before last I’d say absolutely not though, that’s definitely run it’s course.
Yes, if I have feelings for her and I think she has changed from the last time, I will give her a second chance.
I have before, but now in my current situation. Definitely not, especially since I'm with someone I love.
It depends on you and what's the reason for break up. If it's not cheating then probably I'll give the second chance
It depends on why he's my ex but I believe exes are exes for a reason, and if we have once decided to end the relationship completely then it's not worth a second try.
I mean honestly it depends on the guy and what happened to make the relationship end
would never. there's a reason u broke up.. i could talk to them if they insist of course, but only as a human not as a candidate for round 2 🙂
I did give a second (and third and fourth) and he wanted it. I realized I was stupid for doing that and I haven't gave second chance to anyone since.
Maybe, if he could go back to being who he says he is
There is one ex to whom I would give another chance.I still miss you Adriennne... every day.
That would depend on the circumstances of the breakup.
I did once. He cheated again so never a second chance again.. in my opinion cheaters never change.
Not always but they changed a few,,
Depending why we broke up in the first place. If it was a bad break up no... but in good terms absolutely yes second chance would be ok.
Absolutely yes, but it depends on that persons individual scaring.
Depends if she cheated on u or not... me and my ex broke up because of her mother... I asked her out yesterday :/
Absolutely, you can give your ex a second chance if there was true love and he is truly walking with Christ. Asking price name.
Well that depends on the severity of The Break-Up , if it's cheating no but if it's just a misunderstanding yes
Yes. There is always A second chance no matter what. She was your Love your whole fuckin life at one point of time
Yeah, image zero problems with any of mine. If you do then maybe you should choose better!
It depends on which one. 2 ended on good terms, the rest no fuckin way
Maybe in the worst case yesBut I'd still be mostly reluctant
That REALLLLLLY depends on why we broke up in the 1st place but I could
I don't know I'm pretty stupid, so it's a possibility
It hardly ever works out... they are an ex for a teason.
Hell no I'm not anyone's second choice...Or first choice really
Not a chance. There's a reason why they are called EX's, and getting back with them means going backwards, when everyone should be trying to go forwards with their lives.
Nope, you didn't work for a reason and people never change. Don't be a yoyo just let em go go lol
yes as long as she didn't have sex since we broke up
Absolutely not... He left me for dead at the hospital
She gave me a lot of opportunities within one,& after I screws up too much, so?
No... I don't think that will be nice for future...
Ya you can give him a second chance of you truly love him..
It the love was true why did you break up in the first place.
Sometimes situation put you in such place where you dont have many options.
How can you know that situation won't just come up again. There is a reason it didn't work together.
Depends on the reason for the break up. If it was a large thing probably not.
I would like give her a second chance cause people change with time. but it depends on situation
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