My ex wants to keep seeing me like we never broke up. Not sure what to do?

We broke up because he doesn't want a relationship. Issues in the past with family have left him feeling abandoned & like relationships aren't worth it, but he still wants to see me and asks me a lot He has kept in touch with me for 2 years & he still wants to see me. He still likes me, but he said from the beginning that liking someone is a headache. Now in his 30s he has never really had a serious relationship other than me. He doesn't sleep around either, he jus can't be bothered with anything.

But it's unfair to me to expect me to continue like we're still together without the pressure of being together & he knows I know him best, so he can't let that go. The other day he said he wanted to see me & I changed the subject. On new year's he said he wishes i was there just to cuddle.
My ex wants to keep seeing me like we never broke up. Not sure what to do?
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