I was just wondering what would be going on a guy's mind if .. let's say after a month of virtually no contact, you (the guy) agreed to meet up with your ex-girlfriend (who was the one to ask for the meeting.. and who's the dumpee) to talk about what happened weeks before you initiated the breakup. and let's say you broke up with her because she let you down many times(meanwhile, she apologized about it). lets also say you left her for another girl (who's the other ex) who's the sweetest girl on earth and who treats you like a god. in the first place, would you agree to have a drink with the ex-gf to have a conversation ? if so, would you be nervous to see the chick you've just dumped ? would you be scared about anything ? what would you think about her ? how would you expect her to react ? would you feel confused ?
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I would agree to it, but once you started talking about why we broke up or whatever I would be uncomfortable and turned off (not sexually). It sounds like maybe you want some closure. If he agrees I would make it quick and then ask him how everything else is with him, give him the impression that you're glad he's happy with things, etc etc. If you still have feelings for him but now he has a new girlfriend, he probably doesn't want to hear that ... I wouldn't want to. Keep it casual and if he wants to stay friends he's a good person, treat him like a friend, not an ex. DONT BURN YOUR BRIDGES HUN0