Married but in love with someone else?

I’ve been married 5 years, we have a 4 year old.

Only last year, just over a year ago, I fell in love with a colleague. Nothing physical happened but I know he feels drawn to me too.

We haven’t had any contact now since December and I thought that would help my feelings fade but they’re stronger than ever. Even when I’m intimate with my spouse, I’m thinking of this man. And last night after my husband and I made love, I cried 😢

Things in my marriage are great. My husband is a really loving man, better than any other man I know I could ever find elsewhere and he’s an amazing dad. Yet for some reason, I have this longing for someone else.
Married but in love with someone else?
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