So I've been married for 10 years almost 11. And probably the last 6-7 years there is just no fire. We have sex about 1-2 times every 3 months. Lately ita been 5 months. There just isn't any intimacy whatsoever. I love her, I do and we have 3 beautiful kids. But I'm clueless on what to do. She is on antidepressants which she has taken way before me and they kill her libido. But, I have talked to her about maybe talking to her dr. Or someone to see if maybe she can get on something else that doesn't have the same side effects. Just lost right now and need advice.