I see SO many people in unhappy relationships and it makes me wonder why people settle like this? If you only live once why waste your time with someone you are not happy with?
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Oh I know right? We already know why: Fear of never finding someone, wanting to settle down and get out of the player stage, thinking we found the right one, etc..
My perception is that all these games/chasing/etc is for exactly what they are meant for: Getting to know one another.. But I don't think it should end there like most people make it. Think about it - how many times have you actually focused on understanding how your partner feels about different things?.. Well, considering my answer to the previous question is: "I've tried but never succeeded" - then why was I considering marrying her? SIMPLE! We get caught up in emotions.
- Because this girl made me feel awesome, I wanted to be with her forever. Luckfully I chose otherwise after realizing several things that had not presented themselves till then.