My last three relationships were complicated messes, and a lot of it had to deal with the intimate part of the relationship. Is it so bad that I want to stay a virgin until I find the right guy? Every time I tried to explain this to my ex's, they became angry and started yelling at me.. Another thing is, I'm still in high school.. Why would I want to take any chances at all of becoming pregnant? I've seen what some of my friends are going through and I don't think I could handle that much pressure and responsibility. I'm still young and I want to live my life freely: go to parties or whatever else is on the agenda. So... Do you think I made the right choices by turning them down? Or should I loosen up? Because I'm so confused right now.