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He just wants to be a dog. Don't fall for it. I was in the same position and pregnant too.. and he will most likely come crawling back when he has nowhere else to go or no one to screw on demand.
How did you move on?😭
He's sleeping next to me... I haven't moved on. Just living a lie til I'm financially stable to care for my four month old on my own. Which is soon.. I'm lining my ducks in a row. Does yours plan to be in your child's life?
Yes he does
I don't know if it’s wrong or not but I’m hoping when the baby is born and sees all of us together he will want to come back
Seems like quite a gambit. He might want you more or he might move on. If you're into games then do it but if you want something serious this seems like a bad decision.
He makes it clear he doesn’t want to be with me last time he said that he blocked me on everything and came back in 2 weeks
Sounds like a destructive relationship. It shouldn't be this hard.
Your right but I’m 8 months pregnant and am not trying to break my family apart
Well this took a turn. I suggest you look into co-parenting and child support in lieu of trying to make it work. I'm guessing he already know it is and so he's running away from his responsibilities. At your age you're still discovering things so you have a long road ahead.You need to ask him if he wants to be a part of the childs life, and let him know that you want to have a real relationship. Be prepared to find someone more dependable if he won't commit.I was scared that I couldn't take care of my kids when things went badly with my relationship but I'm handling it now. My boys are doing a lot better now. It was best fir the kids for us not to be together, but hopefully that's not your situation.
@lionking19 This fickle guy should feel ashamed of himself. It's suprising that so many people try to evade responsibility, frankly it's disgusting. He's most likely not worth your time now that you've found out his true nature.
That's a really big coin to be tossing. And a lot of variables need to be considered.Some people have theorized that my ex did a similar thing to me in order to get the same result. But because of how things happened, it ended up pissing me off, and I wrote the relationship off.
That depends on his feelings, if he doesn't have any feelings for you then it won't work
I know he still loves me and misses me when he isn’t around his friends. Last year when he did that he told me he didn’t want me and then blocked me on everything and then came back in two weeks
Then he does care, talk to him for a while before you do it tho so he can get all the feelings back and then you disappear and he would want you so bad
Iv tried and I don’t know what to say to him anymore
If youve talked to him for a while then say something that would keep him wondering and disappear
Well that depends on your convo or your normality personality missy 😊
Lmao what would you want to hear
Well im just saying, it depends on your personality and how he normally sees you, you can't be all nice at a moment like "oh dont worry" then another day you are just like "fuck this fuck that" it wouldn't be you
What im saying is that you have to say something with your personality not just a random interesting thing something that would be you im saying 😂
Im going to let you be you tell your ready to talk to me. We need to talk face to face like grown ups no fighting no arguing no crying but talking. We have a child together *****and I remember you were so excited when you found out I was pregnant you were happy to start a family with me. You told me you were starting to look for rings. What happened. we talked about having another kid together and everything. I want to fix what went wrong to make things right to be happy with you again.
I sent him that and he is ignoring me
Honestly at first i thought you had the wrong person, i was like "pregnant" "baby", but Thats what you told him lol, wait you had a sexual relationship with this person already? I thought it was a guy you just were friends with or something
Lmao no we have been together for 3 years and I am 8 months pregnant
Sorry about this weird comment but he is ganna miss that pussy😏, what im saying is that he will eventually remember what he had with you and when he knocks out of that phase he's going through he will come right back to you, zjust be patient
Possibly for a bit. But if you remain cold... he'll move on
He broke up with me like 3 weeks ago I have been trying everything in my power to still want to be with me. I was thinking if I just stopped he will miss me and want to come back. I’m 8 months pregnant and want to keep the little family I have together
You're pregnant too... ouchYou can try... I don't know though.
That largely depends on whether he is truly into you or not. Do it anyway.
We have been in a relationship for 3 years and I’m 8 months pregnant he says he missed me and loved me and stuff but I feel like I’m getting played and it hurts
Things could really, truly be bad like getting cheated etc. But know this, you are PREGNANT. The hormone are worse than having period. So, could be overthinking. Heck, 99% chance are, overthinking.
Well , if there is a woman in his life , he will not
If I was him it would turn me off and make me not want to pursue you. I'd take it as you dont need me to be happy
I have been fighting for him to come back for 3 weeks now. He said he didn’t want to be with me like a year ago blocked me on everything and then came back in 2 weeks
Obviously I can't speak for him but he had his reasons to block you. As an honest opinion I think it depends on you feeling him out based on your interactions once you break contact. Because he could always come back because he is lonely not because he wants to be with you
He misses the moments more than he misses you
Last year he did the same shit to me said he didn’t want to be with me blocked me on everything and then came back in two week and was sorry for everything he said to me. This time is different because I am 8 months pregnant
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