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maybe because just in case things dont work out between him and the ex he can run back to you. dont be the second option your better than that
Ok. But still I tried to tell him why go back to an ex over an baby you didn't expect, cause by the end I feel like it's not going to work out. But people are saying he has to try be the father of the baby. I mean my brother has 2 baby mommas he still gets to see his kids and has a new woman around. Even my ex has 3 baby mommas but doesn't get to see his other kids cause they cheated on him or treated him badly. So why make this one work out...
does he have any other kids?
Yes 2 daughters and a son with 3 different women
woah i wasn't expecting that cos i gonna say that if it was his first chilld maybe he wanted to be there for it. or maybe in this case the ex is forcing him
@Muhfucah tbh yeah you're right, i think you should not stay friends cos as i said before he may be keeping you close just to have you when he needs, USER! or actually, did he really mean to stay friends or did he just say that so you werent upset
No. He asked if being friends is an option to me cause he said he doesn't hate me. Saying I didn't do anything wrong at all. He thinks I'm a nice caring wonderful woman to him. Its just he didn't expect this with his ex but has to try cause he already feels lost without his other 3 kids and don't ever get to see them ever.
@Muhfucah Well you would think his ex wouldn't want him around or he wouldn't want to be with her cause he didn't want nothing to do with her in the first place. But now has to try for this baby that's on the way. I mean my brother has 2 kids with 2 baby mommas and still gets to see them and has a new woman around.
well then maybe he just want to be friends cos as he described you , you'd probably a good friend to him that has his back
@Muhfucah quite possible. there are many things thats could of happend in this situation if i wanted to know why, i'd ask him
@Muhfucah glad @trackgirl19 didn't become a bm
@Muhfucah truee lol
@Muhfucah No. He said he tried to work it out with most of his baby mommas but they cheated on him and treated him badly. He said he feels lost without them and much as he wants to be in their lives too. So I'm guessing its on the baby mommas. I mean my sister has 4 daughters and all the baby daddy's have custody on their daughters cause they don't trust my sister to keep them. But they tried to agree with my sister on letting her see them, but she don't agree. Its all about drama with her.
some guys are just annoying as hell, im ngl this whole situation is annoying id drop everyone if i was in the situation
@Muhfucah All I know is that he hates fighting and drama. One of his baby mommas wanted revenge and burnt his car. Others just cheated on him. Like once he's treated badly there's no going back for him. That's what he told me. So I feel like then why try to make it work out with an ex with an baby you didn't expect. But has to try to be in the baby's life and not in the others.
@Muhfucah He told me he wasn't seeing her and I remember one time he wanted to move in with me and move away soon cause he was living at a friends where I would go pick him up and drop him off at. He was frustrated one day cause he was in the same room everyday can't go get a job. But I told him if he wants to move in with me he needs to find a job. He was making like he really wanted to be with me. But I had a lease on my place. Like I wanted to help him move away too
@Muhfucah Well yeah. I mean me and him talked everyday and night. He didn't cheat on me. He was probably cheating on her with me til she became pregnant. I mean he wanted to move in with me soon. Even I was on the pill at the time me nor him were planning for kids not anytime soon. We planned for a baby in the future cause I think that's how it should be. I just think his ex did him wrong too by getting pregnant and not being together that whole time. I mean she didn't force him to be with her the whole time til now she's pregnant. He said she knew that me and him were together... even he told me she was an ex
No... he choosed her cause she's pregnant now and he didn't expect that. Like if she wasn't pregnant he would probably be moved in with me by now. Even though before he wanted too probably had to do something about her. He didn't plan on moving in with her all along til now she's pregnant. He said he's been down a rough road and wanted something different and made it like I'm different. Cause I remember I asked him a serious question how can I be the woman for him. He made it like cause I'm not like other women like he ex til now she's pregnant. He probably misses the moments we had. I talk to his good friend that always been there for him and they hope he doesn't screw our relationship up.Cause I told her me and him didn't plan for kids anytime soon til in the future. That's why I accepted the friendship with him cause I'm not a woman who just says fuck it and move on. He knows we had something and still wants to be friends.
cause he is a jerk
But he didn't expect for his ex to get pregnant and knew I was on the pill but wanted a baby with me in the future.
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