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What kind of family pressure? Are they saying that break your relationship or they just kinda hate you? Anyway, if they don't want her relationship than you actually can't do anything. You can force her to not do so but eventually, she has to go home everyday and there, she will be punished. Can you see your girlfriend being punished or being criticized? No, no one can. Give her time. Talk to her openly for the last time. Find solutions if you can and if nothing comes up than tell her to break up for a while. Actually, I can't think of ideas as I don't know much about her parents. Tell me the answers of my questions and maybe I can help you out.
Actually we are in college level now. We both have 3 years to complete on college. Last week her parent get to know about our relationship and they get so sentimental. Her father got cried a lot which is enough for a girl i think. Her family suggested her to study now and avoid other things. So she asked me for a break up and she suggested me to stop calling and msging her and she also said that after 3 years if u r interested then come and proposes her with family support. What should i do?
Oh man. That's a big problem. The best you can do here is to let her do what she wants to do. You can't stop her now. Like I said, she has to go home everyday and has to show her face to her family. Girls and emotional and emotional drama is enough to distract a girl most of the time. Things won't work now. I would say that if you love her than go for her after three years. I've seen people who have waited for thier love for 5 years. This waiting will either tell you that you still love her or will either tell you the truth. If you both are in same college than meet in college. You know, she won't lie to her parents and she can't even fight with them for you so what you can do is to let it happen.Last option left is just waiting.What do you think?
She is staying in hostel and me too.. We can meet easily in college too.. bt the problem is the real pressure from the family.. She rarely went to her home which is far away from our college. Then the positive thing is that her parents had love marriage so i think they normally support in our case too in future.
That looks positive man. If you can meet in college, she doesn't have to go home regularly and you both have chances to get married in future than why does she wants a break up? I know her father was crying, but I can make out only one thing with this. She is being fast. She is taking this decision in fast ( I don't know what word should I use. sorry my English Is weak) You have a better future. Give her some time. You alone can't change her parents mindset and she, I think, won't tell her parents or debate with them. The path is clear. Let her do what she wants but meet in college. In meetings, you can talk with her. She will soon start to talk to you as she is taking this decision by being instant influenced by her parents.I am right if her parents cried nearly I week or some days ago.
Girls are more sentimental towards their family as we all know, she loves her family more than me that's why she suggested me for a breakup coz she dont want to see her family in disappointing situation.
What should i talk with her in our meetings in this situation? I can't force her for Doing anything coz she haven't done anything wrong.
Yep. This is right. You knew the answer. She won't change herself and its only you who has to decide what to do next. I would suggest you to let her do what she wants to do.
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Ok.. you are suggesting me to keep in touch with her right?
Cool, thanks bro (y)
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Try getting a job and using proper grammar.
I'm nt here to correct my grammar !!
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