So there is a girl that I like and I'm trying to get her to go out with me. She is always friendly with me and I made it known to her I like her and would like to date her.
So I asked her if she wanted to go out for drinks or dinner one night. She told me that she is still completely heart broken with her ex that she just recently broke up with. But she would like to do drinks as friends. I told her via text that I could wait as I think it is worth it and that I have other things I'd like to focus on as wait (work and mma).
I also told her that I understood her situation and if the best I can do is friends then so be it. Which she texted me back saying that she appreciated understanding and she wished she wasn't having so much trouble with her breakup and that day by day it was getting better and she needs to try to get over it.
So for everyone - do girls ever come around after trying to get over their ex? From what little I do know about her past dating, she does take it hard when she breaks up.
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i think you need to bite the bullet, I think you've already let her know you are definitely into her...so when there is an appropriate moment...ask if she could see herself being into you one day, so you know if you're 'on the same page' at least in terms of basic attraction...or also just say...do you think we could only ever be friends...and just explain that this way you know and don't have false hope kinda thing...
some girls like having guy admirers 'orbiting' around them so be careful of that
def keep your options open as you've already said :) :) but stay friends without getting too emotionally involved if you think you can handle it0