So me and my partner have been together for about three years going on four. We started off bad , He lied various of times kept things like other woman's calls , but in the end decided to give it a second chance I still felt unsure but thought hey ill give him the second chance...So now he still keeps things from me he "forgets" to tell me where he was going...He always sides with his mother on decisions we should be making and that kind stuff... I have actually told him what I felt but it always ends in a discussion I'm tired of the relationship but we have a kid so should I just stay and be miserable I don't know really I need help I'm confused angry resentful so many bad feelings and I don't know what to do ?
Is it even worth my time to keep trying?
What Guys Said 1
If you want to walk away you still have to deal with him, visiting rights, custody, and child support etc...0
What Girls Said 1
If you aren't happy then leave. I'm sure in the long run your child would rather have two separate households where their parents are happy instead of them being together and fighting and not happy. If he's still siding with his mother than it sounds like he hasn't fully grown up yet and can't make decisions without her which is a red flag. You need to just talk to him and let him know how you feel and that as the mother of his child you deserve better treatment. Let him know how he can make things better (if he can) and ask him if he's willing to do those things and work on the relationship. If he isn't then leave. If you guys can't work things out then its going to be hard on your child regardless but two homes that aren't filled with fighting is a lot better than one that is for a child to be around.0
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