My ex and I were together for 2 years and a few months. We’ve been having issues for a while things never got better so we decided to end it. In the past the thought of us ending it made me sad like the world was coming to an end. But I have peace I’m not sad or anything. I feel kind of weird about it like maybe I never loved him the way I thought I did. I’m actually excited to move forward. However I also get thoughts that maybe it’s not over and that why I’m not sad. If that makes sense.
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I'll tell you my story. I also got out of a 2.5+ year relationship. There were some happy moment, but most of it involved insecurity, jealousy, and frankly just nonsense, which I attached to it being her first relationship. However we stayed together because we still have feelings for each other. I also considered proposing down the road, and I had purchased a ring in secret. Then she brought up the topic of breaking up because its getting too much. So I reluctantly agreed. Since then, I feel much better, no strings attached, I'm not confined and feel locked down, and like you said, peaceful. It doesn't mean I didn't love her. I did. But there were just bad stuff that now you know it's gone, it's feels really nice.0
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