How long does it take you usually to get neutral
Most Helpful Guy
Sometimes. The hardest women to get over are the ones who you never actually had anything with, because then you're stuck asking "what if?" There was a girl I went to college with who I was crazy about, but she just wasn't feeling it. She didn't even really shut me down, she kind of left me in limbo. I think that leaving me in limbo was probably the cruelest way she could have dealt with the situation, because there was never really an "I'm not into you" talk, and I was basically stuck with this small hope that she would come around.
Most Helpful Girl
When I was 17, I was in a relationship for nearly 2 years. It ended when I was 19, and I officially got over it about 1.5 years later. Now, I am 21 and I could care less about that ex. I think about him sometimes, but, all the cheating, lies and pain - none of it hurts anymore. Also, my feelings are gone for him. He’ll always hold a special place in my heart (even though he was a terrible boyfriend and human being), and I’ve come to forgive what he put me through, and i feel so free!
I think it depends on the duration of the relationship, and how invested you were. I am always really invested in my relationships so it takes me a long time to get over them. But, usually it takes about 6months to 1 year, or a little bit longer :)