When I found out my boyfriend cheated, I was so outraged! I, of course, was going to react in a hostile manner towards him and i said some really hurtful things to him. However, he would tell me i was hateful and spiteful and toxic. He would tell me how horrible of a person i was for the things i said, but would t acknowledge how horrible he was for lying to me and betraying me for so long. I don’t understand why i am painted as the bad guy, or why i feel i am worse than him, and why he acts like i am. He makes it as if the continuous act of cheating isn’t THAT horrible or bad to do to someone.