its been close to 2 years and I'm still not over my ex. I'm not sure if its her or the idea of her that I'm still in love with. we've been through many fights even after we broke up and chances are we may never even be friends again. but my heart holds on to the hope that one day she might come back and that's what hurts me. because every time I hear about her going some place with her new boyfriend, her flirting with some guy, her wrecking someone else's relationship. its come to the point where I may be foolish but I still can't seem to let go.
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im in the same situation...and the worst part is I have a new boyfriend who I really do love. But this other guy was my first love and my first time...and I was his... and I can't seem to let go of him, or the hope that he will want to come back someday. I know exactly how much I shouldn't care about him and how much I shouldn't care what he's doing or who he's with but I do. and I hate it. I wish I could completely forget sometimes but I know that the memories are all I have left. I should hate him but I can't seem to make myself. instead I just hate the girl he's with. I don't understand what could change his mind so fast...even if circumstances got difficult, I was willing to work through everything untill it got better but he just quit. and I will never forgive myself for not trying harder to get him back when it still would have worked, I waited untill it was too late. the only thing you can do is tell her you still care. and see if she cares too. there's not a day that goes by without me thinking of my ex and if your the same way then I don't see why she wouldn't want someone like that..good luck and I'm sorry your hurt too :(