So my ex and I broke up 4 months ago. Yesterday we hung out for the first time in a month and he was being very sweet and very flirty. Then later that night I was lying on the couch at his place and he just came over and started cuddling with me. And then he kissed me.
I pulled away at first and asked him what he was doing, and he told me that he realized over this past month that he missed me a lot and that he just needed space to realize that. He said that he wants to date again and just not have it be quite as serious as last time because he got overwhelmed. And then we kind of hooked up.
I text him today and I asked him if he still felt the same as he did yesterday and he told me that he did.
Are we technically dating again...? Is this a bad idea?
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Well it really depends on why he broke up with you to start with. "just not have it be quite as serious as last time because he got overwhelmed", well what did he expect? If you are not a casual girl, then please don't act like it. So when it gets too intense again, is he just gonna bail out on you again? This is what you have to think about.
Is this a bad idea? Well how is your relationship going to improve if he isn't in it to be serious? Why do you want to be with him? People get back together to make it better, not to just date until it gets serious again.
Personally, I don't think he wants a girlfriend but he can't get another girl to be casually into him so he just comes back to you. If you make it that easy for him to come back, it'll be just as easy for him to leave again. But that's just my opinion, I could be wrong.0