My girlfriend and I have been split up for 3 months, I cheated on her and we have a baby together,,, I've made visible changes and have even moved to the town she took our son to, to live with her parents!! she's 40 and I'm 39, I've never chased after a woman in my whole life and I think I have pushed her away because of my consistent contact and trying to fix things, I call to talk about our son and I turn the conversation to us. She told me today that there will never be us again and that her feelings have changed because of me bugging her constantly!!! So I'm not gonna contact her or talk about us like I should have been doing all along! Do i have a shot in time if I continue to show her my changes and that I really am serious about us?