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They're scared of being hurt. A lot of people don't take chances with love because they are just scared of putting themselves out there and not getting anything back.
It’s weird to me that’s living. All the feelings involved
It's amazing what people are cool living with...
I hear ya
I recently discovered that I have been pushing people away. I've been doing this for years, totally without my knowledge.
Well you should stop it’s not living if you can’t experienced the joys and pains of it right?
I have changed it, actually. But for many people changing is much easier said than done, because for many people the fear of the unknown is worse than a crappy certainty.
Yeah it’s so crazy bc I have been so hurt before but the chance of finding something “real” is more imprints t then giving up on it then they tend to run from love and find an asshole to date and can’t undertake entire they are unhappy So weird
Well it's because we go with what we know. It's truly the definition of insanity... We keep doing the same stuff, falling in love with the same people, and we keep telling ourselves that for whatever reason, this next time will be different. It never will be, because we aren't different.
we are love, we are run on love (fueled by), love sustains us.
Then you don’t know who you are then if love dictates all
look up the word in dictionary and see that there is two meanings to this word "sustain" and one of the meaning is the reason why they actually ran away from love.
I don’t need to look it up self love must come first
What do yoj mean
What do you mean about sustain I read it but I’m not sure where your going with it
are you in love?
Women? I don't know too many women that do. Men, yeah, 3/4 do.
Oh I knw some
Because so many men have ruined our self worth and self esteem
Yeah but if you loved yourself no one can ruin that for you
Hard to love yourself anymore when no one else will.
No one will, or you won’t allow?
No one will. I've opened my heart so many times for it to just get it shoved so full of bull shit and lies that it doesn't feel loveable at all.
Guys do it true just basic fear of rejection or getting hurt
Self sabotage is more like it
Yes it is vary stupid
Cause we don’t want to end up hurt.
They why live if you are scared of the emotions that come along with living
Cause you can save yourself the hurt and pain if you avoid it all together
Cause theyve been hurt before or seen it happen
But part of living is getting hurt what the point if living if you can’t experience all the emotions including hurt the chase that you may not get hurt and may love isn’t worth it?
If you saw your mom getting beat up and raped by a guy who said he loved her as a child, wouldn't you be wary of love?
I had similar done to me with family but I decided to not let that dictate my happiness so it’s confusing
Love is scary
No it’s not, fear of losing it is. But it’s part of life and we one have one life. Maybe I’m old fashion
I have been hurt before so I experience fear when I fall for someone, I get that some people don’t though
We all do but I think it’s about who wants to take the risk of it working out and being vulnerable with someone
Hm, yeah, I guess you’re right
I am pretty certain I am... live!
I thought men does
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