The break up process has been awful, and I haven't helped myself!
One weekend I see her all is fine, the next she is with this guy! I have already punched her new boyfriend, plus when speaking to her face to face I lost my temper again and broke her phone.
Can some one tell me if I have got a chance in hell in getting her back?
I mean we spent 3 years together!
At present we not talking to each other! I don't know how to get her back!
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We have a similar story. My ex cheated on me and I saw that guy she was cheating on me with, so I shocked that f***er in the face. I never broke her phone though. That was a huge mistake by you. My ex girl decided about 1 year later that she missed me and wanted to be with me again. I was so in love with her, but I told her to f***k off. This is what you gotta do. FIRST work on your anger. Depending on why you guys broke up plays a huge factor in this. If she said she is " Out of Love" with you then its over gotta move on. If you needed to change your ways, then show her you changed by having a different attitude, don't caring so much about what she is doing, but focus on you. That's all I did, I hardly ever saw her, and finally in a rare occasion when she did see me, she saw that I was living a great life, having fun and that I changed. After time went by I realize that there are a lot of woman out there. I know its hard to understand this now , but there is always someone better than her for you. Bro for every 1 guy there are like 3 females. Plenty of woman out there, we both are still young. Hang in there bro1