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This is really sad. I feel so bad for you. I can only imagine what your feeling inside right now. Basically your gonna have to decide wether or not you want to continue being with your partner and being unhappy. However, life is too short for that. Why not be happy and enjoy life with someone. You only live once. And besides, it wouldn't be fair to your partner if you stayed and you dont love them. It's better to let them be happy with someone else. Unfortunately your headed down a long hurtful path of unknowns. I wish you all the best.
The worst part is that I know she loves me and she is trying to do anything to make me happy but in fact she is not listening to what can make me happy. She is so stubborn and only listens to her own mind and never accepts any comment or advices against her ideas
I should also add that, your children will be ok. Just make sure you are there for them. Try to be as amicable as possible with their mom. I would also suggest that if you get a girlfriend that you keep it a secret. This could set off your ex and shit will hit the fan and she will probably make it as difficult as possible for you to see your children. You may be looking at some court dates too. Went through this with my now boyfriend and his ex wife.
That can be very difficult if she won't listen. If you still love her, then maybe you both need to sit down and have a good talk. Tell her your not happy. Tell her she doesn't listen to you and that if she doesn't make changes you may need time apart. Counseling can also help.
Thank you for the advice hope things work out better for my kids
I'm sure they will. Everything always falls into place. You know what is best for you. 😊
At the end of the day the kids are a lot more important than you or your wife, but if being in a marriage where you don't love the other person is negatively impacting your children then you might want to break it off. Otherwise it might be better to try to fall back in love with her or just suck it up until the kids are gone.
Well I've always think I should suck it up till my kids are gone but my kids are still ages 3 and 9 so I believe by the time this happens I'll be at a useless age lol
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