Nah, I'd probably be too comfortable with him or too used to being with him to think of leaving him. And the thought of going through all the dating bullshit again is just too much. Also, he's got a personality that can pretty make me forget about his looks or body.
It depends. Like if they suffered an acid attack by a terrorist or had their face mangled by a monkey, I would want to but there would be an internal struggle as to whether I should. If they just got really really fat, I would work with them to exercise and est healthy.
I mean it would depend in what way. Like if my partner gained a massive amount of weight and had no interest in losing it, then probably yeah.
It's disingenuous to stay with someone if you don't find them physically attractive. If a long term relationship is going to work you need some level of physical/sexual satisfaction, and that's not going to happen if you don't find them sexually appealing and that's just going to lead to you feeling unfulfilled or resentful in the long term.
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Attractive in appearance or in terms of behavior? Both? I think the first thing to do if physical is encouraging better physique like going gym together or jogging in the park. If grooming, make an appointment to get that fixed, surprise him with stylish suitable clothes, drop hints , "I find it always attractive when you would had that hairstyle or -insert name if cologne- turns me on... if it's about behavior it's a bit more difficult to address, maybe counseling?
Honestly. If I fall in love with someone it wouldn't be for their looks. Sure, looks are what draw people in in the first place but whether or not they choose to stay with that person will depend on their personality and who they are.
Most people would because they don't know how to love and most of you don't even love the person you're with, you just don't want to be alone. So let me answer for most people here, yes they would.
If they were mangled in a car wreck then no but if they just got lazy and gained 200lbs then yes because there are other things going on there and they can help that.
That all wildly depends. If they are unattractive because of who they have become, then that's more than just letting yourself go physically. In that case, absolutely. If they just put on a few pounds, that's no big deal.
Well I don't know how my boyfriend can become "unattractive" to me when he is clearly attractive to me now for many reasons :P But to answer, no. I love my boyfriend far, far beyond his looks.
Only way I wouldn’t be attracted to him anymore is if his personality changes and I don’t see him turning evil anytime soon so no this wouldn’t happen.
My friends always seem to find my partners ugly or unattractive. I've always found my partner (s) attractive in their own way and soon find every aspect of them beautiful
I like them when they care for themselves, going gym, watching weight.. But i do not lose my attraction just because they change. Appearance can be improved.
Probably not. Even if they would gain a lot of weight, I'd still love them even though I wouldn't really be happy and probably the attraction would slowly fade away.
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The only way that I can think that my guy could start to become unattractive to me is if he begins to physically, emotionally, or financially abuse me. For those reasons, yes, I absolutely would leave.
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Nah, I'd probably be too comfortable with him or too used to being with him to think of leaving him. And the thought of going through all the dating bullshit again is just too much. Also, he's got a personality that can pretty make me forget about his looks or body.
It depends. Like if they suffered an acid attack by a terrorist or had their face mangled by a monkey, I would want to but there would be an internal struggle as to whether I should. If they just got really really fat, I would work with them to exercise and est healthy.
I mean it would depend in what way. Like if my partner gained a massive amount of weight and had no interest in losing it, then probably yeah.
It's disingenuous to stay with someone if you don't find them physically attractive. If a long term relationship is going to work you need some level of physical/sexual satisfaction, and that's not going to happen if you don't find them sexually appealing and that's just going to lead to you feeling unfulfilled or resentful in the long term.
Attractive in appearance or in terms of behavior? Both? I think the first thing to do if physical is encouraging better physique like going gym together or jogging in the park. If grooming, make an appointment to get that fixed, surprise him with stylish suitable clothes, drop hints , "I find it always attractive when you would had that hairstyle or -insert name if cologne- turns me on... if it's about behavior it's a bit more difficult to address, maybe counseling?
Depends, if thats physically, then no, if thats mentally n personality wise n keeps acting like an asshole then yes.
If you are only together because you likes each others looks then you were destined to fail from the start.
No i wouldn't leave a partner who became unattractive, my levels of love would still be the same no matter what.
Honestly. If I fall in love with someone it wouldn't be for their looks. Sure, looks are what draw people in in the first place but whether or not they choose to stay with that person will depend on their personality and who they are.
Most people would because they don't know how to love and most of you don't even love the person you're with, you just don't want to be alone. So let me answer for most people here, yes they would.
If they were mangled in a car wreck then no but if they just got lazy and gained 200lbs then yes because there are other things going on there and they can help that.
It's impossible because she's the most beautiful girl in the world 😍
The appearance only mattered at the beginning at the relationship.
But I'll be damned if the person became obese and refused to do something about it.
That all wildly depends. If they are unattractive because of who they have become, then that's more than just letting yourself go physically. In that case, absolutely. If they just put on a few pounds, that's no big deal.
Well I don't know how my boyfriend can become "unattractive" to me when he is clearly attractive to me now for many reasons :P But to answer, no. I love my boyfriend far, far beyond his looks.
Only way I wouldn’t be attracted to him anymore is if his personality changes and I don’t see him turning evil anytime soon so no this wouldn’t happen.
My friends always seem to find my partners ugly or unattractive. I've always found my partner (s) attractive in their own way and soon find every aspect of them beautiful
Depends, if she had an accident or something that wasn't her fault, then no.
If she just started getting obese and lazy then yeah.
I like them when they care for themselves, going gym, watching weight.. But i do not lose my attraction just because they change. Appearance can be improved.
Probably not. Even if they would gain a lot of weight, I'd still love them even though I wouldn't really be happy and probably the attraction would slowly fade away.
The only way that I can think that my guy could start to become unattractive to me is if he begins to physically, emotionally, or financially abuse me. For those reasons, yes, I absolutely would leave.