My girlfriend and I recently broke up ago, 2 weeks, after 3.5 years. While everything wasn't perfect with us, we both loved one another. Well I am wondering the probability of her meeting a new guy and that is why she left. We had sex 2 days before we broke up and I had even talked to a few times on the phone after that with no issues or warning signs. Then BAM, she says I am not happy anymore, we aren't married yet, you are not supportive enough, basically everything is my fault apparently. Since then she has not called me once and we talked multiple times a day and saw each other almost every night. We do not even speak nor have I seen her in over 2 weeks. She broke up with me on the phone as well. How can someone just walk away and be so cold? I mean really? Anyway just curious what other people think. I know my gut is probably right, there is always a third party.
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She made a clean cut, cause it's best that way. Especially if you love the person you're breaking up with, you should not have any contact with them, because it's too easy to slide back into old patterns, kiss, have sex...and when you are unhappy, getting back before anything has really changed is not helpful.
I'll give you an example. I love my boyfriend, sorry, ex-boyfriend, SO much. I would do anything to see him and be with him. But I just wasn't happy in our relationship. For reasons that I feel are somewhat in his control, so I won't see him until I feel something has REALLY changed. Cause if I see him and nothing has changed it'll just be all the harder.
I will just be disappointed, and miss him again. I will just be miserable and hurt and STILL broken up. That's just my take.0