I've just come out of a long term relationship and I dunno what to do?

Im told i should have fun sleep around and not bother with a relationship my lesbian mate said i should explore my sexuality.


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  • You don't have to do anything. The couple of times I was in a long-term relationship that ended, I took some time away from it all. I focused on myself, seeing that I had a lot more free time for myself. It's sorry if like a sabbatical from relationships. I got back to the more time-consuming hobbies if mine. Give that a shot for a few weeks before going back to starting another relationship.

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  • You don't need to do anything. The best thing is to start building your independent life back, going day by day with a normal life. The worst thing to do after a long relationship ends is to start sleeping with strangers.

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  • That's just disgusting your lesbian friend she makes me sick she's like The Devil's Advocate trying to turn you, she's going to destroy your life get rid of her

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  • Honestly just enjoy being single for a bit, just do single stuff

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    • But what is single stuff

    • Well just enjoy not having to talk to a person because you are in a relationship, spend time on yourself, if you want to go and explore your sexuality then go for it, I just wouldn't both with looking for a relationship for a while, if you want to play the field and sleep with a few people do it, but just make sure thats what you want, I'd rather just have fun being single for about a year or so

    • Sounds like a good idea

  • I was in the same situation as u. I have just been sexting and Caming with strangers. Although I don't at all recommend that

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  • Umm why?

    What is sleeping around going to accomplish?

    I think you should do something more productive.

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  • I would say you could do anything you wanted! Maybe just look for something else in a sexual partner than just the plessure of the flesh

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    • Even thou the plessure of the flesh can be really nice sometimes! ;D

  • You should do what you think you need and want to do

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  • Your friend said is explore your sexuality & beauty

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  • Stay single for a while and see how it goes

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    • Ok i suppose i probably won't date for awhile

    • It keeps your mind of everything and if you aren't ready, staying out of it will help you know when you are ready to start dating again in the future

  • Would you feel comfortable with sleeping around?

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  • Have lots of sex!! <3

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  • Do that

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What Girls Said 2

  • Just chill til you know what YOU want to do.

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  • Enjoy being single

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