In a different state, should he be allowed in said child's life?
If a guy beat me while I was pregnant, beat me after baby was born, cheated on me, and ghosted my baby and I to be with another woman?
What Guys Said 8
No, he shouldn't. He's a violent abuser and no judge should agree to grant him visitation.2
No, he has a history of violent behaviour and would therefore be a potential risk to your child.3
Neither you nor child is safe with him or have any future with him.2
No he shouldn't be allowed in the babies life. He sounds pretty unstable type of person you deserve much better.1
Yes he should0
No... He shouldn't be allowed to live either2
thats generally for the court to decide0
What Girls Said 9
No he shouldn't. He hasn't treated you with respect at any point.
Why allow him back into your life if he's hurt you so bad and abandoned you guys when you need him?
Fuck him. Let him go and fuck about - you do you. Raise your kid in the best way you can0
No. He shouldn't get anywhere near you or the baby. This guy deserves the death penalty.1
He shouldn’t be anywhere near you or that kid.2
Children in your heart is broken0
No because this is abuse and letting him in your child’s life will only cause the child harm. Don’t let the father be part of the child’s life no matter what. He shouldn’t be around you either. Get a restraining order?2
Ask Dr Phil0
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