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I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years and I'm finally feeling like I've reached that point. Technology I started wanting to leave a year ago but no matter what I did I kept toying back and forth out of fear and guilt. Now I'm slowly realizing I shouldn't feel guilty (even though I still do) because there have been very big issues from the beginning that he never takes accountability for and always pushes under the rug. He makes me feel unwanted and I've lost a lot of my confidence because of it. The relationship isn't working and yet I was to afraid (and still am) to jump ship. I care to much even though I hide it by being a bitch. All I can think about is how much it will destroy him and it kills me and just makes me stay. But 3 or 4 years for me I guess. Maybe more if I keep holding on to a sinking ship.
Thank you for your input...Are you okay? ? ?
Right now I'm hanging on but I'm sure when I finally let him go I'll be pretty depressed. I have a habit of not facing my feelings until I can't push them down anymore. I guess I just pretend everything is ok and live in a fantasy a lot but when it's over I won't have that fantasy to fall back on anymore and I'll have to feel the full force of the truth and it will probably crush me. I have a lot of mood swings recently because I find it hard to be around him without feeling angry and trapped. It's a bad game to play.
I obviously don't know you but let me ask you this:Do you love yourself? It seems your love for him destroys your ego...Make sure YOU are happy first...
If I love them, I won't give up.
If they live in a different country and have a girlfriend, do you think you have to give up on them...
But surely im just living in the past then?
Well I've been waiting 4 years and 9 months for the girl of my dreams so I guess that long xD
I feel for ya bro
I loved her for more than 11 years... in relationship for 2 years... broke up with her (stupid stupid stupid)Were you in a relationship? Or just waiting for a girl that doesn't give you a chance?
I've been waiting 4 years and 9 months. It's not that she hasn't given me a chance. She was in other relationships and I missed my opportunity to confess a year and a half ago, now that she's single again I have a second chance and currently we're getting quite close
Ya better not waste it bro!!! Just make her laugh!!!You need to be the funniest guy she ever known
Hehe yeah, I hope I am, she's always laughing with me :3
I don't even think like that there's been times when I feel like giving up but I find a way
Recently with this latest guy it's been 9 to 10 months. He kept playing games and was never planning on asking me out and told all his friends he didn't want to be with me but yet still flirts with me and hangs around me like a fly on a piece of shit so fuck him I say. I still acted friendly and kind towards him but secretly I want to tell to leave me alone and to never talk to me again. I'm so sick of guy's like him all they'll ever do is keep me as one of there options and never think of me as a human being with feelings. I remember I waited 3 years for one guy to find out he was messing around with one of my friends who was also in a relationship with one of are other friends. I've literally just given up on relationships all together because I know the only man I can ever rely on and will never disappoint is my dad.
I waited for a guy for years! Starting from high school to post grad but he chose my sister. What I took from it is that, its never good to wait and hope for something with someone. I always regretted not going up to him and asking him point blank if he wanted me. That would've saved me a lot of heartache.
Thank you Claire!
A few weeks at the most. The older I become the less patience I have with this stuff. I hate time-wasters at the best of times and the world is full of women that keep you hanging for as long as possible before either deciding to hook up with you or to drop the idea all together.
I will give most decent guys one date, and that is usually long enough for me to decide if he’s worth any more of my time or if we are simply incompatible. I’ve never chased after a guy, but years ago I gave up on a relationship after about a year of dating without us being official. Told him I wasn’t going to wait for him to make up his mind any longer and left.
I have the biggest crush on this guy for 3 years and I believe he likes me too because he won't give up trying to get me to talk to him and he tries very hard to getvmy attention and impress me but were both shy. I think everyone is different and it takes time.
Next time he ask's you out, just the 2 of you, at the end of the date grab him and give him a kiss and leave.
@Denver_ He has never ask me out we have only talk a few times on 3 years.
will I'll talk about a friend ship thingI used to have a friend ship with a nice girl.. with no details.. I had lots of health problems because of her and our broken up.. after her I learned not to have just one friend and not to put all the hobbies in someone.. not to. have close friends either
Never put hope in them in the first place, every single other human being on this planet is just vermin who wants to hurt you. Lmao
I appreciate that view... I had the same at your age so... Can't blame you there
Hey man, you good?
@Math-Is-Power me? Hell yeah. Haha
All good lol
How long has it been first of all and how do you get along? It depends on wether it was for a reason or if there's nothing there anymore.
It took me 2 months during my relationship and 4 months after it to properly get over and give up on my ex... I think it depends on how emotionally invested you are in it.
I give up easily but that's because there are just so many options out there why would I bother trying relentlessly at something if I can easily just go get attention from someone else
It depends on the situation i usually talk about the things that concern me and if my partner has no interest in talking about the problems, the partner is not invested enough, means it is a waste of time from there on. My opinion on the topic.
If I had a relationship, I'd give it like... 2, maybe 3 tries. Then BYE BYE
I would say 3. Would give a 4th but it really depends on the person
I don't know the severity of the actions presented would definitely need to be evaluated.
I'm always giving people more chances, so it takes me a while to give up on someone.
Sadly, I tend to wait too long
Hey don't give up man! As you can see from the comments, there is a lot of hopeless romantic out there!I love it!(I thought most people were shallow and selfish now)
Depends on who it is. And what they mean to me.
I loved her for 11 years.I haven't seen her for 8years.She added me on facebook last night.
Long past the point where I should.
When they refuse to do stuff for me
untill you will last thinkig of giving up
So far, 1 1/2 years and still going. So, a while.
Depends , sometimes never
I give about 3 tries
It would be the 4th...Thanks for the input!!!
A couple minutes
Over my dead body
On my dead body 😤
Wish I knew
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